Recognizing Value

Back in the 90's when Paul and I were living in Germany, we enjoyed an occasional care package from Paul's grandma, Paula. Usually they were filled with small surprises and several newspaper clippings regarding the Padres, the Chargers, or any other San Diego news of interest.

On one occasion, the contents included a single pair of women's full- coverage panties. They were 100% polyester, obviously not brand new, and they looked huge. Although they were not at all my style, they were clearly intended for me, so I curiously read the accompanying note out loud to Paul:

"My dearest Gina,

These perfectly good underwear washed up on the shore at La Jolla, so I took them home and washed them, and you are the only person I know who is small enough to wear them. Enjoy!"

My husband howled with laughter.

Now, over the years, Grandma blessed us with thousands of dollars in gifts, so this was just an occasion to smile at, and glean from her values. It is said that wealthy people recognize things of value.

Grandma certainly lived wealthier than we did. We used to chuckle that she would pull over on her way to the opera to pick up a discarded aluminum can.

What did I learn from her? I learned to appreciate the days of humble beginnings. I learned to stop and admire all things of value. Even today in her honor, if I see a small coin on the ground, I always pick it up and gratefully acknowledge that there is no shortage of money underneath my feet. Then I often place it back on the ground for the next value- spotting soul. It's my gift, to those who walk in gratitude.

Most people won't acknowledge that little coin. Most people lose sight of the abundance that is all around them.

Did I wear the washed-up underwear? Well no. Everyone asks me that! I did, however, cherish the memory for years to come.

Today, I hope you can enjoy the simple things...and then laugh a little!

-Gina